Here we set out to find these answers. We asked two women to tell their views, stories, pet hates and much, much more!
"Sex is an extremely important part of my life- I find my job very stressful- the hours are very long-sex for me is a great release of tension and stress. I don't have time for a relationship. At work I am in a high position of power, therefore I find it a great turn on to be taken charge of a man who is really confident about themselves and their body. Unfortunately many men don't posses this kind of confidence or the right size package.
Penis size is actually fairly important to me, which I suppose is quite sad. Recently I slept with a man called Tom* who was lovely, good looking etc etc but had the smallest penis I've ever seen-I laughed when I saw it-I just couldn't help myself. When it was all over I ended going into the bathroom and satisfying myself-not the ideal situation. However, I have had some successes with more average men, but not very many. I suppose it makes me sound shallow but in my mind
There is no point in having crap
sex- I can quite happily satisfy myself if need be.
Length is not
the most important factor for me, girth is. I'll never forget Rob* who had at
least a 8 inch penis, but it was the thinnest, weakest looking thing I'd ever
seen-this was reflected in the short performance. A good large girth usually
means a stronger, more flexible penis. This is reflected in the length and
control a man displays during sex leading to greater satisfaction.
Helen Tatton*, 31, also lives in Notting Hill. She is a successful Barrister
and lives with her boyfriend of 7 years. She talks about how their relationship
has been affected by sex?.
'Paul* and me have been together for
what seems like ever. We're very happy together- I don't think we will get
married- the idea just doesn't appeal to us-we're happy as we are. Not
everything has all ways been so smooth though- it took along time for our sex
life to be up to standard!
When we first
got together it became apparent fairly quickly that I had a much greater sex
drive than Paul*- sometimes he simply wasn't interested. This began to affect
the rest of our relationship- I began to doubt myself, his love and our trust.
Paul* simply wasn't interested and when he was lacked something.
Paul* decided to take matters into his own hands (does she realise what's she's just said!-Ed) he declared that we couldn't have sex for a 4 week period. In this time he began doing exercises to strengthen his penis-which in turn would give him more confidence. He also had a delivery of pills arrive which I later found out where natural enlargement pills.
At first, I do
admit I had my doubts-it sounded almost sleazy and dodgy. But, my relationship
was on the line here- I was willing to try anything to prevent losing the man
that I loved. After the 4-week period, we resumed sexual activity. The change
in Paul* was amazing- his penis was thicker and stronger looking. This change
was reflected in his confidence level and his performance- we took the plunge
and have never looked back.
Our sex life is
now fantastic- I still don't know what exercises Paul* does- I don't want to-
all I know is that they have changed our relationship. I never though that sex
could have such a bearing on your life and relationships- I'm just glad we got
it sorted before it was too late.'
So their you go boys-two, real life women's opinions on size? cheers-Ed)
